Pic of the Week 23

Posted by on February 22, 2014
Invited for lunch with a local family -  somewhere in the Northern Vietnamese province of Ha Giang

Invited for lunch by a local family – somewhere in the Northern Vietnamese province of Ha Giang

How come the people that have the least are the most generous and hospitable? This phenomenon has been accompanying  me during my entire trip and once again in Vietnam. We had set off for a three day motorbike excursion into the far Northeast of Vietnam. A remote and mystical region named Ha Giang, a region characterized by sheer limestone walls, granite outcrops, hanging valleys and often referred to as Vietnam’s final frontier. It was on the way from Ha Giang town to Dong Van when we took a hidden side road which led us across a rusty bridge into a traditional village. After exploring for a bit and playing with the village kids we noticed a house at the end of the little main road. Smoke was rising out of the chimney and loud laughter filled the inside of the house. Driven by my usual curiosity I wanted to see what was going inside and had a peek through the door. As soon as the family inside spotted me all hell broke lose. Everyone was talking to me and dragging me inside instantly. It was a big family with kids, their parents, grandparents and what seemed like aunts and uncles, all gathered in one big room. To officially welcome us, we were offered some homemade rice wine. Strong stuff, especially at midday. We didn’t want to be impolite and had one, then two and then a few more. The grandmother was pretty assertive about it so refusing was no option here. Already a bit tipsy, we tried to have a basic conversation which wasn’t even too bad thanks to my phrasebook and a loose tongue due to the rice wine. Meanwhile the mother of the kids was cooking food for the whole family on an open fireplace. The house was filled with smoke but it smelt nice. After a bit we thought it would be best to leave since we didn’t want to impose ourselves on the family as they were about to eat. But no way, everybody was shouting, pointing at the floor and insisting that we would stay, sit down and join them for lunch. It was incredible. These people were living in a simple wooden house, cooking their food on open fire and did not even have running water. But they still invited two foreigners inside their house to share their meal with them. It was a really humbling experience and I couldn’t help myself but asking if something like this would ever happen in our developed societies back home….

6 Responses to Pic of the Week 23

  1. Victor Rakmil

    Great post, lovely photo!

    • Phil D.

      Hi Victor, thanks a lot. I think the picture describes the situation very well. It was a very unique moment and one of the best experiences I had in Vietnam. Thanks again for stopping by and leaving a comment. Cheers, Philipp

  2. Akbar

    Hello Phil.. what a photo’s.. i think you are a good Photographer and you should joint the Garuda Indonesia World Photo Contest 2014, this is the link >> http://gawpc.garuda-indonesia.com/contest/ don’t forget tell me if you became d’winner 😀

    • Phil D.

      Hi Akbar, thaks so much for the hint concerning the Garuda photo contest. I didn’t know about it but sounds very exciting. I put it on my to do list and will probably send my entry photos in a few days. So thanks again to pointing out that contest. I sure would have missed it without your help. Where are you from anyways? I might have passed your place during my trip … Cheers, Philipp

  3. Hitch-Hikers Handbook

    Stunning photo, mate! If you like travel photography, you may be interested in our Travel Photography Competition. I will send you a link via Twitter. take care!

    • Phil D.

      Cheers, glad you like the picture. I will make sure to check out the competition. Also thanks for connecting via Twitter